Relationships: Men Need To Feel Successful

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Published on January 17, 2018

Why men need to feel like they are successful at making their women happy in relationships, and how feeling like they are unsuccessful at making their women happy will cause them to withdraw and leave the relationship. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer who has broken up with her boyfriend twice in the past due to their difficulty communicating, and their most recent breakup was his doing. She has been reading my book and watching several of my videos on communication and getting an ex back. She says they have helped her to better understanding things tremendously. She started reaching out to him after two weeks and invited him over to make dinner together. He had a bad toothache so no sex or kissing happened. He kept trying to bring up heavy subjects and she kept changing the subject to having fun and making dinner together. He kept sitting on a different couch than her and she felt he was really distant. She now wonders what she should do, if she should ask him for another date or wait to hear from him. She also would like for him to read my book and asks my opinion on how to bring it up so he does not get upset or offended since he is not open to seeking help from outside sources. “Men need to feel like they are able to make their women happy in a relationship. When women are happy, men take personal credit for their happiness. When women are unhappy, they feel responsible for their unhappiness. Eventually, if they are unable to communicate and work through their problems, the men will grow tired of feeling like a failure and start withdrawing from the relationship and may leave it altogether. Men and women communicate very differently. Men tend to be problem solving based communicators and use logic and reason. Women tend to be emotionally based communicators and use relational examples to get their point across. Sometimes women just want men to listen, and sometimes they genuinely want their advice. Men should always ask their women, “Do you just want me to listen, or do you want my advice?” when they are unsure. If men try giving advice when their women want them to listen, the women will become upset and complain they are not listening. It’s always better if men ask women what they need, instead of assuming and acting on their assumptions, which are often wrong.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Click the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work: Click the link below to book phone/Skype or email coaching with me personally: Click the link below to get my Kindle eBook: Click the link below to read my FREE self-help articles: From my heart to yours, Corey Wayne

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